{"id":2484,"date":"2025-11-25T02:24:25","date_gmt":"2025-11-25T02:24:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/?p=2484"},"modified":"2025-11-25T02:24:27","modified_gmt":"2025-11-25T02:24:27","slug":"tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Tell a Hard Truth Anonymously?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>There are times when you know that you should speak up but the thought alone is scary. Maybe it&#8217;s a boss who doesn&#8217;t listen, a person who hurt you, or you just want to send an anonymous message to a friend about a problem. Staying quiet feels easier. No conflict. No judgment. No consequences. But silence is heavier to bear in the long run.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is why they seek anonymous truth messages, some way of speaking the truth without being found out. Anonymity is not cowardice; if applied appropriately, it&#8217;s a shield to help deliver truth in a responsible, empathetic, and risk-free way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The secret is to be truthful without unnecessary harm instead of hiding away forever, which is where anonymous channels of feedback, such as Anonsms, come into play.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" 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to Responsible Truth-Telling&nbsp;<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#The_Goal_Must_Be_to_Help_Not_to_Harm\" >The Goal Must Be to Help, Not to Harm<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#Your_Pre-Message_Ethical_Checklist\" >Your Pre-Message Ethical Checklist<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#The_Formula_for_a_Constructive_Truth_Message\" >The Formula for a Constructive Truth Message<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#Anonymous_Truth_Message_Examples_for_Difficult_Situations\" >Anonymous Truth Message Examples for Difficult Situations<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#For_Giving_Feedback_to_a_Colleague_or_Manager\" >For Giving Feedback to a Colleague or Manager<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#For_Expressing_Concern_to_a_Friend\" >For Expressing Concern to a Friend<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#For_Saying_%E2%80%9CYou_Hurt_Me%E2%80%9D\" >For Saying \u201cYou Hurt Me\u201d<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#For_Apology_or_Vulnerability\" >For Apology or Vulnerability<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#For_Positive_Truths_Yes_anonymity_can_uplift_too\" >For Positive Truths (Yes, anonymity can uplift too!)<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#Why_Security_Is_Non-Negotiable_for_Sending_a_Truth\" >Why Security Is Non-Negotiable for Sending a Truth<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#Frequently_Asked_Questions\" >Frequently Asked Questions<\/a><ul class='ez-toc-list-level-3' ><li class='ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#Isnt_this_just_a_tool_for_bullying\" >Isn\u2019t this just a tool for bullying?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#What_if_the_person_gets_angry_or_upset\" >What if the person gets angry or upset?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#Is_my_message_truly_untraceable\" >Is my message truly untraceable?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/tell-a-hard-truth-anonymously\/#Conclusion\" >Conclusion<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A_Quick_Guide_to_Responsible_Truth-Telling\"><\/span>A Quick Guide to Responsible Truth-Telling&nbsp;<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Anonymity may be the voice of sincerity, but it can be put to deliberate use. Truth-telling is not hiding and telling words that matter, heal, or better a situation without creating unnecessary hurt in relationships.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Goal_Must_Be_to_Help_Not_to_Harm\"><\/span>The Goal Must Be to Help, Not to Harm<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>A message that is written without showing the identity of the sender is meaningful only when one intends to improve without taking revenge. Anonymous truth messages are designed to uplift, warn, or heal, never as a slur, never to strike. Consider anonymity as a cover-up of compassion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask yourself before you send any message: Is it going to build or break?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Power comes with anonymity, and power without responsibility is bullying.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Your_Pre-Message_Ethical_Checklist\"><\/span>Your Pre-Message Ethical Checklist<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask yourself the following questions:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table is-style-stripes\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><tbody><tr><td><strong>Ethical Question<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Why It Matters<\/strong><\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Is it true<\/td><td>Keep away from assumptions or exaggerations. Stick to facts.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Is it necessary<\/td><td>Silence can be a form of kindness after all. Speak only if it matters.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>What is my motivation<\/td><td>Are you helping or venting? Only the first one counts.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td>Is it actionable<\/td><td>Understanding how to give constructive feedback anonymously can have a chance of creating change.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Pre-Message Ethical Checklist<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>If your message passes all four checks, then it&#8217;s not just an anonymous note; it&#8217;s accountable honesty.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Formula_for_a_Constructive_Truth_Message\"><\/span>The Formula for a Constructive Truth Message<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether you want to send an anonymous message to a friend regarding some problem, give feedback about a manager, or tell someone they&#8217;ve hurt you, here are 3 steps to follow:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"682\" src=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-6-1024x682.png\" alt=\"New SMS arrival concept illustration\" class=\"wp-image-2490\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-6-1024x682.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-6-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-6-768x512.png 768w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-6-1536x1023.png 1536w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-6-18x12.png 18w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-6.png 1600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Make a Neutral Observation<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>No blame, no feelings. Just the facts.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Example: I\u2019ve noticed in meetings that only a few voices are heard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Describe the Impact<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Focus on consequences\u2014not character flaws.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sometimes, this makes people hesitant to put forward ideas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Offer a Positive Path Forward<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>Make it hopeful, not hopeless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Make it hopeful, not hopeless.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m sharing this because your leadership has the potential to make everyone feel included.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This technique of making criticism becomes clarity and anonymous messages of truth more powerful and received.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Anonymous_Truth_Message_Examples_for_Difficult_Situations\"><\/span>Anonymous Truth Message Examples for Difficult Situations<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Anonymous messaging can act as an anonymous feedback tool for managers, for expressing concern to a friend, or telling someone they hurt you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Below are some real-life message ideas for sensitive situations that are all honest, respectful, and built to help, not hurt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"For_Giving_Feedback_to_a_Colleague_or_Manager\"><\/span>For Giving Feedback to a Colleague or Manager<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>This is a good idea, but in meetings, you should ensure that you provide room for other people to contribute. Maybe this could help make the team more creative.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>You set a very high standard, which is inspirational for those who are around you; sometimes this feels intense. More attention to boundaries around priorities may lead to a reduction of stress.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I am grateful for your leadership. Small instances of recognition for the team may improve morale even further.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"For_Expressing_Concern_to_a_Friend\"><\/span>For Expressing Concern to a Friend<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>I care about you and I&#8217;ve realized that you&#8217;ve been looking pretty overwhelmed lately. You deserve support if you ever need it.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>This friendship is important, and the cancelling of plans over and over again doesn&#8217;t make sense. I hope that we can reconnect more intentionally.\u00a0<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I&#8217;m saying this with love &#8211; your choices over the past few years are potentially hurting you more than they&#8217;re helping you.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"For_Saying_%E2%80%9CYou_Hurt_Me%E2%80%9D\"><\/span>For Saying \u201cYou Hurt Me\u201d<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Something you said recently felt dismissive. I know it may not have been the intention, but it hurt.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I value you, but a moment made me feel unseen. I hope we can both be mindful in the future.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I\u2019m sharing this anonymously because the connection matters more than the ego.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"For_Apology_or_Vulnerability\"><\/span>For Apology or Vulnerability<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>I regret how things unfolded. I hope healing finds you.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I wasn\u2019t my best self. I\u2019m working on it quietly. Thank you for being part of my journey.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"For_Positive_Truths_Yes_anonymity_can_uplift_too\"><\/span>For Positive Truths (Yes, anonymity can uplift too!)<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>You inspire people more than you know.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Watching you grow has been one of the most beautiful things.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Your kindness changes the tone of every room you enter.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>If you\u2019re wondering what to write in an anonymous truth message, the golden rule is: be honest enough to matter, kind enough to land.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_Security_Is_Non-Negotiable_for_Sending_a_Truth\"><\/span>Why Security Is Non-Negotiable for Sending a Truth<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>If honesty is the message, <strong>security is the messenger.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Most people hesitate not because of what they want to say, but because of the risk of saying it. Will they know it\u2019s you? Can it be traced back? Will it damage relationships or careers?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That fear is real.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That\u2019s why <strong>Anonsms exists.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Anonsms: Your Shield for Difficult Conversations<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you utilize Anonsms, here&#8217;s what you get:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Guaranteed Privacy &#8211; No data stored, no traces of identity, no exposed.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Completely Untraceable Messages &#8211; Your identity remains invisible.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Instant Delivery &#8211; No delays, no sign-ups, no complications.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>No Personal Risk for Honest Conversations &#8211; speak freely, safely, responsibly.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>When it comes to anonymous truth messages, Anonsms is not merely a platform &#8211; it&#8217;s protection, empowerment, and peace of mind.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>How It Works in 3 Easy, Secure Steps<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Speaking your truth shouldn\u2019t feel complicated or unsafe. With Anonsms, you can send honest messages in seconds\u2014without revealing who you are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Visit<a href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\"> <strong>Anonsms.<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"405\" src=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-5-1024x405.png\" alt=\"send anonymous sms on ANONSMS\" class=\"wp-image-2489\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-5-1024x405.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-5-300x119.png 300w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-5-768x304.png 768w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-5-1536x608.png 1536w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-5-18x7.png 18w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-5.png 1600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"2\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Write your thoughtful, constructive message and enter the recipient\u2019s number.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"587\" src=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-4-1024x587.png\" alt=\"pay and send securely\" class=\"wp-image-2488\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-4-1024x587.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-4-300x172.png 300w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-4-768x440.png 768w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-4-18x10.png 18w, https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/11\/image-4.png 1244w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"3\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Click <strong>Send<\/strong>\u2014and exhale. You\u2019re protected. They\u2019re informed. No trace. No consequences.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p>This is what it means to safely tell someone a difficult truth without collateral damage.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-buttons is-content-justification-center is-layout-flex wp-container-core-buttons-is-layout-1 wp-block-buttons-is-layout-flex\">\n<div class=\"wp-block-button is-style-fill\"><a class=\"wp-block-button__link has-white-color has-vivid-cyan-blue-background-color has-text-color has-background has-link-color wp-element-button\" href=\"https:\/\/www.anonsms.com\/\"><strong>Tell the Truth Anonymously<\/strong><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Frequently_Asked_Questions\"><\/span>Frequently Asked Questions<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Isnt_this_just_a_tool_for_bullying\"><\/span>Isn\u2019t this just a tool for bullying?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Not when used responsibly. Anonsms promotes constructive honesty. The intent should always be to help, warn, encourage, or heal\u2014not harm.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"What_if_the_person_gets_angry_or_upset\"><\/span>What if the person gets angry or upset?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Truth can be painful. But anonymity eliminates the interpersonal tension and gives the space to the person to process the message rather than react defensively.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Is_my_message_truly_untraceable\"><\/span>Is my message truly untraceable?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes. With Anonsms, there are no saved identities, records, or traces. Privacy is 100% intact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Conclusion\"><\/span>Conclusion<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Speaking truth should not mean sacrificing peace, relationships, and reputation. Anonsms empowers people to send an anonymous message to tell someone they hurt you\u2014without them knowing who you are. Built with speed, safety, and absolute privacy, it makes sure your message gets through while keeping your identity secure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Whether you&#8217;re giving a leader feedback, expressing your concern to a friend, or letting out a bottled-up truth, Anonsms makes difficult conversations safe ones. Honest words deserve to be heard. And now, they may be shared without fear. 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